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15 Best Japanese Dating Sites 2018 By Popularity

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Japan Cupid

Japan Cupid is one of the most popular dating sites for white men to meet Japanese women.

After spending considerable time on researching the topic, we find several reasons why you may want to join the site, if you are a white man looking for a Japanese woman.

1. The site attracts lots of Japanese women. According to the website, JapanCupid is the "leading Japanese dating site with 700,000 members."

2. Even better, the Japanese women on the site are interested in dating white men. Because JapanCupid's main target market is dating between white men and Japanese women, a Japanese woman won't join JapanCupid if she only wants to date a Japanese man. So the site presents you a great list of self-selected women who think your fluent English and poor Japanese is an attraction, not a weakness.

3. The site has a time-tested system to match white men with Japanese women. The site was founded in 2005. Its current huge popularity is an evidence that the system works. Another evidence is over 280 success stories on the site. Our research also shows the site did help a good number of white men meet, date, and in some cases marry, Japanese women.

If you plan to Join JapanCupid, here are nine tips to maximize the chances you may meet or fall in love with the Japanese women on the site.

1. Spend some time completing your profile. On one hand, it gives your potential dates some information to know you better. On the other hand, it makes your profile look real and creditable.

2. Upload several photos. You may want to wear clean clothes in the photos. You may smile in at least one of the photos.

3. If you are currently in Japan, you may want to point this out in your profile. If you are not in Japan, but you plan to visit Japan in the near future, like in one or two months, you may want to add this to your profile. Most Japanese women on the site are in Japan and they are only willing to meet you there, so this is quite important.

4. If you are presently not in Japan, but plan to visit Japan in a short period, you may need to select a city to visit. Tokyo seems to be most popular city on JapanCupid, and many Japanese women live in the metropolitan area. So if you choose Tokyo as the city to visit, you may have plenty of choices. However, if you choose a small city, you may be among a very small number of white men visiting the area, with far less competitors. Both strategies have pros and cons, though the majority of men still stick to major cities like Tokyo.

5. If you are new to online dating, please don't send money to anyone you meet on a dating site before you actually meet the woman in person.

6. JapanCupid has two types of memberships, free memberships and paid memberships. Free members can't contact other free members, but they can contact paid members. Paid members can contact anyone on the site. To get best result, you may consider becoming a paid member. The most important benefit of paid membership isn't to remove the restrictions of free memberships. The paid membership shows you have enough interest, determination, and financial resources to pay to meet the Japanese women you desire. This may greatly improve your response rate from Japanese women. Anyway, the monthly membership fee is only a small cost in your overall dating expense, including items like travelling, coffees, dinners, etc.

7. You may want to send a good number of messages to the Japanese women in your desired metropolitan area. Just think about it. If one man sends 5 messages in one month, and another sends 50 messages during the same period, the second may get more responses, if everything else is equal.

8. Please don't concentrate on hottest Japanese girls under age 25. At the end, you may find good characters and mutual interests matter a lot.

9. You may want to visit the site from time to time. It's possible the Japanese woman ideal for you isn't on the site during your first visit to JapanCupid.

Many previous members find true love and marriages through JapanCupid. Some others think dating experiences with Japanese women are fun and worthwhile. But we can only help you as much as the advices above. You are the person, with your own time, energy, and determination, to make this happen. So good luck on your Japanese dating experience at JapanCupid!

Know More at the Official Website of JapanCupid

Asian Dating

Asian Dating is a popular Asian dating site with over 2 million worldwide members, including a good number of Japanese singles.

International Cupid

International Cupid is an international dating site with some Japanese members.


The international dating site attracts a small number of Japanese single members.

Part 2: 7 Other Popular Japanese Dating Sites

World Friends

World Friends attracts a good number of Japanese singles all over the world. To find them, you can choose "Japanese" as the ethnicity at the search function.
People join the site for various reasons, such as casual dating partners, meaningful relationships, marriage partners, or penpals.


With over 44 million global users, eHarmony is a popular dating site. The site matches users based on an algorithm of 29 dimensions.


The popular international dating site has a small number of Japanese members.


Match.com actually has a very popular Japanese sister site, jp.match.com, with huge number of Japanese members. Unfortunately, jp.match.com is in Japanese, so it's difficult for you to use the site, unless you know Japanese well.
However, if you visit match.com directly, you can still find a small number of Japanese users, who speak English.


The Korean dating site attracts a small number of Japanese singles.


TrueLoveJapan is a Japanese dating site. It's free for female members.

Christian Mingle

The Christian dating site has a few Japanese members.

Part 3: 4 Popular 100% Free Japanese Dating Sites


OKCupid is a free dating site with lots of Japanese singles as members.
To find them, you can follow the link above. Then change the location to "Japan" and a Japanese city such as Tokyo. You may be amazed at the number of Japanese women and men you'll find on the site.


The highly popular free dating site has established a very strong presence in Japan. To find Japanese singles, you can follow the link above. Then select Japan as the country and a city such as Tokyo.


DateinAsia has successfully attracts many Japanases men and women as members. Following the link above, you may find a good number of quality singles in Japan.


You should be able to find a small number of Japanese singles on the free dating website.